Play Therapy Podcast

In this episode of the Play Therapy Podcast, I address a question from Shannon in Iowa regarding managing separation anxiety when children want to bring a parent into the playroom. This is a common challenge in child-centered play therapy (CCPT), and I provide guidance on maintaining the therapeutic environment while respecting the child’s need for security. The playroom is a special space reserved for the therapist and the child, and allowing a parent in can disrupt the process and relationship-building in CCPT.

I explain how to manage these moments by acknowledging the child's feelings, setting the li...

Avoiding Third-Person in the Child-Centered Playroom

In this episode of the Play Therapy Podcast, I kick off our new Session Savvy series, designed to help play therapists refine their approach and avoid subtle deviations from the child-centered play therapy (CCPT) model. Today, I address a common habit I’ve noticed, especially among those with an academic or school background—referring to oneself in the third person during sessions. While it may seem harmless, this creates a subtle disconnect with the child, distancing the therapist from the relationship that is so central to CCPT.

I explain the...

In this episode of the Play Therapy Podcast, I answer another insightful question from Danielle in Georgia about managing cleanup in child-centered play therapy (CCPT). Danielle shared that she typically gives children the choice of whether or not to clean up, but she's curious if this aligns with CCPT principles. I explain that in CCPT, the therapist is responsible for cleaning up, while the child’s role is to play. This approach allows children to leave their feelings and experiences in the playroom, providing a cathartic release without the burden of “tidying up” their emotions.

I emphasize that w...

In this episode of the Play Therapy Podcast, I respond to a question from Danielle in Georgia about handling a client’s return to child-centered play therapy (CCPT) after a year-long hiatus. Danielle's client has spent time reminiscing about previous therapy experiences and wondering about changes in the playroom. I explain that while the process of CCPT remains unchanged, the return of a client often brings a mix of reminiscing and exploratory play. This is natural as the child re-establishes the therapeutic relationship and reassesses old play themes to determine if they still hold significance.

I emphasize th...

In this final episode of the Summer School Series on the Play Therapy Podcast, I delve into the profound insights from Garry Landreth’s The Art of the Relationship. As we wrap up this series, I explore Landreth’s reflections on the dynamic nature of child-centered play therapy (CCPT), emphasizing the importance of presenting our authentic selves to truly connect with and understand the child. I discuss how CCPT allows therapists to experience the child's world while receiving the delicate and subtle messages that reveal the uniqueness of each child's personality.

I also highlight Landreth's perspective on the...

In this episode of the Play Therapy Podcast, I respond to a question from Bailey in Texas about the effectiveness of child-centered play therapy (CCPT) for children with NF1, a genetic condition. Bailey is working with a six-year-old client whose symptoms resemble ADHD, and she’s curious about the realistic expectations for therapy outcomes.

I broaden the discussion to address how CCPT can benefit children with various disorders or diagnoses, emphasizing that while play therapy may not change the underlying condition, it significantly improves a child's ability to cope, build resilience, and develop crucial emotional and relational sk...

In this episode of the Play Therapy Podcast, I address a common issue many of us face every year—how to handle requests from parents to take a break from therapy over the summer. Ethan from Virginia wrote in with a question about managing this situation when parents want to pause sessions due to scheduling conflicts like camps, vacations, and other summer activities. I discuss the potential impact of long breaks on a child's therapeutic progress, the importance of honest communication with parents, and the options available when families want to take time off. I also emphasize the importance of...

In this episode of the Play Therapy Podcast, I address a question from Jonathan, whos client wanted to leave the playroom to see her grandmother in the second session. I explore the challenges of handling this situation using the child-centered protocol.

We discuss the importance of setting clear boundaries within the session, maintaining the child’s time in the playroom, and offering appropriate choices that keep the child engaged in therapy without letting them avoid the emotional work they need to do. This episode also emphasizes the need to reframe our perspective—recognizing that even when children beco...

In this episode of the Play Therapy Podcast, I continue our Summer School Series by diving into a unique section from Garry Landreth's The Art of the Relationship, focusing on Moustakas' research about the differences in play between adjusted and maladjusted children. We explore how adjusted children tend to be more conversational, spontaneous, and exploratory in their play, while maladjusted children may be either overly silent or excessively talkative and exhibit cautious, deliberate behavior. This research also highlights how maladjusted children often prefer to be told what to do, and their play is more likely to be destructive and...

In this episode of the Play Therapy Podcast, I respond to a listener question from Terri in Ireland, who is navigating the challenges of a truncated therapeutic process. Terri shares her experience with two clients whose sessions were limited due to her training circumstances, and she wonders about the impact on the stages and phases of therapy. Together, we explore how children adapt their therapeutic work when faced with a shortened timeline and how important it is to recognize that the stages and phases of therapy are not always linear or predictable.

I emphasize that while the...